03-04-2018, 08:35 PM
Oh yeah, also to clraify. I do not think the Guards are to blame. I am much aware, like Fern said, that its a sort of chain reaction that causes bad blood between people. So yeah I can see what Fern is pointing at aswell.
@Chaos
About Guard/Villians: Yeah when I thought about it I came to the same conclusion, that this is sorta difficult to handle. And I dare to say that some of the guards, with certain winning mindsets, sorta have troubles seperating A from B. Not out of Ill intent or something, but simply cause they don't think so far for the sake of their fun, which I can't really blame them for aswell.
Yeah I am certainly guilty of the not reporting such things when I see them, since I am generally more the "Swallowing" type till I am super annoyed and also get Cynical. Not a healthy trait and certainly something I should work at but...It's also based on feeling helpless in the situation, though I know that you can be Super fair, nice and actually put effort into it to help, (like you did for me when Soapy bug abuse stole my stuff which you did despite not having to, which got you a lot of respect from me.) its still most of the time word against word, or it just doesn't feel THAT bad at the moment but it kinda adds up.
Abunch of people actually come to me and rant a bit about this and that, and often I notice that they suspect the exact same people that I do to do those things I mentioned previously...Almost exclusively. And when I am in my usual mood I tell them aswell to bring it up but the people afraid of geting shunned by the community actually. Which I honestly understand, cause those are vastly considered the "Upper class of players" so to say...People can be right out Toxic when you step on their toes even if you are in the right. And I doubt you can do much against that either.
@Chaos
About Guard/Villians: Yeah when I thought about it I came to the same conclusion, that this is sorta difficult to handle. And I dare to say that some of the guards, with certain winning mindsets, sorta have troubles seperating A from B. Not out of Ill intent or something, but simply cause they don't think so far for the sake of their fun, which I can't really blame them for aswell.
Yeah I am certainly guilty of the not reporting such things when I see them, since I am generally more the "Swallowing" type till I am super annoyed and also get Cynical. Not a healthy trait and certainly something I should work at but...It's also based on feeling helpless in the situation, though I know that you can be Super fair, nice and actually put effort into it to help, (like you did for me when Soapy bug abuse stole my stuff which you did despite not having to, which got you a lot of respect from me.) its still most of the time word against word, or it just doesn't feel THAT bad at the moment but it kinda adds up.
Abunch of people actually come to me and rant a bit about this and that, and often I notice that they suspect the exact same people that I do to do those things I mentioned previously...Almost exclusively. And when I am in my usual mood I tell them aswell to bring it up but the people afraid of geting shunned by the community actually. Which I honestly understand, cause those are vastly considered the "Upper class of players" so to say...People can be right out Toxic when you step on their toes even if you are in the right. And I doubt you can do much against that either.