[Shujin]

"Why not just be open anyway?"
Is easily answered with this community being very extremely two faced. I have been part of many discord groups and still am, even though as a Silent observer...Some may say Ninja. But something thats typical in those groups is that they trashtalk each others on one end, and act as BFF when on the other. Its funny to read man people in some of current discussions preaching A, when they are litterally main culprit of what they just stated.

that being said, many people do not handle stress well. Many people cant "Confront" stress. It makes them uncomfortable, blank out and anxious. Expecting them to go out of their protective bubble of silence is asked too much. I know you can to a degree, then again? You are the same when you face something and become "Silent" or purposefully ignorant yourself. Sometimes that is indeed the better option as well. Stress Sucks. Not confronting it is less of it actively on your mind.


So the fact that you do the opposite of what you preach here as well, in many cases...Its not "Wrong" to do so. Some people simply handle those things differently. What I can offer and have offered in the past however is...If you(general you, as in anyone reading this) have concerns with this community, and notice just how two faced they are? You are allowed to DM me and speak to me, I do not turn people away that have genuine fears and worries. And if you feel like something needs to be said? I can offer my face/name for it to be made known. I literally don't give a fuck what this community as a whole thinks about me.

I can also handle the peanut gallery coming from it.