06-27-2023, 02:00 AM
While I do feel for people who aren't comfortable making reports, I also feel for people not being told when they're doing something wrong and then getting punished once the person who has an issue finally explodes after bottling it up, or less kindly, people who might have an agenda and claiming someone did something unprovable a year ago.
And this latest happening has absolutely proved that you can be punished for petty, unprovable issues brought up months later, when most people would have forgotten what they've done (or don't remember and can't even make a case for themselves).
If you have an issue with what someone did, you can't expect them to change their behavior if they're not told. Not everyone getting banned is vile scum, sometimes there's just a misunderstanding or other minor friction that could be resolved in a few minutes.
And this latest happening has absolutely proved that you can be punished for petty, unprovable issues brought up months later, when most people would have forgotten what they've done (or don't remember and can't even make a case for themselves).
If you have an issue with what someone did, you can't expect them to change their behavior if they're not told. Not everyone getting banned is vile scum, sometimes there's just a misunderstanding or other minor friction that could be resolved in a few minutes.