[matthewmwps]

I see.

So what I'm getting from this is people can attack me, and then tell me "Nah, I'm not letting there be any consequences to my character"

No?
If a scene occurs and you desire consequences to happen to the other character, but their player refuses, that is ALSO godmodding as its ignoring your wants/agency. Once again, communication is important! And if they refuse to listen the scene is best either omitted or reported to a GM.

If what you wrote here is reallly the only conclusion you can draw from everyones posts, then it seems you just came here to validate someone elses victimhood rather than engage in proper conversation. A shame, but not unexpected given the nature of your original post.

I hope you can at least read back on all this and gain some understanding of the issue.