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Then my question to you is if airing this out is disrespectful and insensitive, how and where is the right place to? You say there are valid concerns, but where are those valid concerns welcome without the belief of disrespect?

It started in general. Then it was said here or modmail would be the best place for such a discussion. And then here doesn't seem right, either? That's very confusing to me.

If someone cannot discuss their concerns in a respectful manner that does not put down the victim's struggles or make egregious assumptions than maybe they shouldn't be "airing this out" to begin with. 

I like to think I've adequately tackled the biggest concerns when it comes to re-evaluating old bans. If you disagree, I'd appreciate some feedback on that. What are your remaining questions, if any?